Friends with benefits for 15+ years accidentally became official during lockdown (aka, the 'oopsy' moment). Flashback to 2017, we were each other's bachelorette partners-in-crime (Autumn got hitched to her still-husband, and Velinda tied the knot with her past-wife just weeks apart). We hit strip clubs in LA, only to leave begging for female-safe, non-icky, sex-positive spots. The conversation never stopped, so we decided it was time to turn talk into action. So here we go…